No one can force you to forgive them or somebody else nor do you have to force yourself to forgive.
It is a process, a personal journey.
It can take time or happen progressively, by "layers", a back-and-forth process
If there is ONE being you should always forgive... it has to be YOU
Forgive yourself for anything you are reproaching yourself with or criticizing yourself for...
You did your best, you didn't know better, otherwise you would have done differently
It is a process, a personal journey that can take time.
When you forgive, you free yourself and you cut the remaining cords between you and the other person.
In any case, forgive yourself for whatever you may reproach yourself with.
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