Are you being unfair to yourself by letting your past decide for you?

The only moment that exists is the now, you are creating your future each and every minute that goes by. How unfair would that be towards yourself to let the past define your future?

You can't change the past, you can only change you perception of it... and when I say "only", it's actually A LOT! Shifting your perspective on the past enables you to heal and start afresh so that you can create the life you want without carrying ghosts of heavy energies within you.